In the age of online dating, searching for love is now possible in your bed – don’t get me wrong – I don’t mean that you can find Asian girls by sleeping around with them. I mean that you can now find a Chinese girlfriend without even stepping out of your bedroom.
Although we’ve all got phones (and beds) and meeting that Thai Chinese girl of your dreams has become easier than ever, many foreign men have no clue how to use online dating apps and sites properly. They seem to be unsuccessful in their efforts to meet hot Chinese sexy girls online no matter what they do.
But we’ve got the answer: you can’t find “the one” sexy China girl because you lack these five qualities and habits of men who found Chinese women to date online. Let’s review them.
A dash of perfectionism. Look, that’s a tricky subject. You know that some people strive to be perfect in everything, including online dating. Unless you overdo it and go way too far with this idea of perfectionism, wanting to get every detail exactly right can actually improve your online dating game. Particularly, we’re talking about the stage when you have to sign up on AsiaMe and create your dating profile. Many people tend to create dating profiles without thinking much, but perfectionists really think through every detail and they get more matches as a result. The bottom line is this: if you want to succeed at Chinese girls dating, make sure your dating profile reflects the real you, doesn’t come off as offensive, rude or ridiculous, and stands out from the crowd of competitors (after all, your profile is like your face when meeting hot Chinese sexy girls online).
Persistence. Men who climb the horse and gallop away into the sunset with the Chinese most beautiful woman are quite persistent. A persistent man doesn’t give up after one Thai Chinese girl (or two, or three) turns him down. A persistent man knows that his future Chinese girlfriend is somewhere out there, and he does everything in his power to find her online. Keep in mind that online dating is an infinite source of opportunities and choices, so there’s plenty to choose from.
Communication. Sounds too generic, doesn’t it? Let me clarify: the key to communication when searching for love online is that you need to learn to exchange more messages with a potential match before asking her number and taking your communication to a new level. If you keep asking for Asian girls’ numbers right away without getting to know them, it’s like chewing gum constantly. It never makes you full and tires out your jaw. Instead, spend more time in the chat and getting to know her.
Ask her out when the time is right. Look, there’s a blurred line between getting to know the person better before exchanging phone numbers (we talked about it above) and taking your interaction online to a whole new level sooner. Yep, we’re talking about your first date. You see, if you feel that the time is right, don’t delay asking a sexy China girl out. Whether you’re chatting with Chinese women in London, New York City or Beijing, girls tend to lose interest in their chat-buddy if it goes on for too long. Don’t let them lose that spark – take it to the next level by meeting for a face-to-face interaction. But before you do, make sure you get to know her better.
Send personal messages, but not too personal. You see, you can’t really establish a romantic bond with someone if you keep exchanging generic, impersonal messages in a chat. In order to be successful at online dating and find a Chinese girlfriend or wife, you need to be smart about the messages you send online. They shouldn’t be neither too deep nor too generic. Meaning: make sure your online communication is like chatting with your good friend. They must be light yet personal so that you get to find out more about each other, and… well, fall in love.