You have met this cute Chinese girl who thinks you are not the ideal guy for her. She likes you, yes, but she is in doubts whether you can make it together in the long-term. You are convinced that she is the girl of your dreams, but he still takes you lightly. You want to change her to believe you can last, but are wondering, can you change someone in a relationship?
The truth is, to get along well with someone in a relationship, some transitions and adjustments have to be made. If this hot Chinese girl loves cats and you hate them, then one of you has to forego his or her interests for the other one’s desires. But is it possible to change the core aspect of your girl in a relationship?
What You Can Change
Research has shown that many people destroy their relationships when they try to change their spouse’s personality. However, change has been seen to work but through a process of personal growth and motivation. Yes, you heard it; it is a process that takes time, not something that can happen overnight.
It is highly unlikely that sexy Chinse girls will come by without a few annoying habits like living entirely on fries, gossiping with her female friends and showing little interest in the kitchen.
The good news is that habits do change. When you talk to her into trying out some real foods, she will develop the habit of having a bite of whole food here and there. Soon, with your assistance, she will start appreciating the whole food and even develop an interest in her kitchen. Behavior, according to a psychologist, arises from the daily or weekly chain of events where they become embroiled in one’s mind. To change your behavior, you train your mind to abandon the old path and teach it to follow a new path.
What You Can’t Change
What will be hard to change in your newly found chine woman is her personality trait. If she is anti-social, conservative, and impatient or gets angry fast, then you will have to find a way to accommodate her the way she is. These character traits are what define a person. Chinese women have different personality traits which make them different.
To make your relationship work, you need to have open communication where you should analyze all these personality traits which make you the different people you are. You should arrive at a neutral ground which requires both of you to keep their traits in check as it is no longer about yourself, but it’s about the two of you. Make plans with your Chinees sexy girl to spend quality time together to find a solution to your difference in personality traits.
Free Chinese women are known for their responsible behavior, so feel confident that she will change. She will appear manipulative in Chinese like other dominant Chinese women, but you can impact change in her. All you have to do is keep trying without fail.
Developing a plan of action such as having open and constructive communication can greatly help your relationship. However, all of this is dependent on her willingness and ability to change. If she doesn’t want to drop the fries eating habit or make an adjustment to her anti-social behavior, it’s advisable you re-think about yourself. Life will be hard for you if refuses change, so don’t sacrifice yourself far too much beyond what you have already done. Your relationship’s health is dependent on how far she wants to go to make you last longer.