China has a soaring divorce rate – nearly 4 million Chinese women divorce their husbands annually.
That’s why you see so many profiles of beautiful divorced Chinese women seeking Western men on dating sites where foreigners can meet Chinese ladies free.
Divorced Chinese girls in China are often branded as ‘undesirable’ and have to put up with the judgment of their community as well as disappointment from their parents.
It’s a tough baggage to carry, but these factors strengthen Chinese women’s strength of character and changes the way she views things, including dating and marrying someone again.
But divorced sexychinese girls still want to find a man who would love, appreciate and value them. And since Westerners are open minded, many divorced Chinese ladies sign up on dating websites to find a foreigner who wouldn’t judge her or make her feel bad about being a divorcee.
Dating a divorced Chinese lady also has its own rules, because Chinese divorcees behave differently in a relationship compared to Chinese singles. That’s what you need to know before you start browsing free Chinese personals:
Cut the bullsh*t. Always cut to the point with a divorced Chinese woman, because they don’t want to put up with another man who plays games or who doesn’t know what he wants from life.
Be honest and open. If you find a divorced Chinese girl you like on a dating site, always be honest and open with her in Live Chat or Video Call. Before you take it to a physical level, tell her outright what you want from a relationship and what you have to offer. If she’s divorced, the chances are high that she doesn’t want another unreliable and unassertive guy in her life.
Avoid asking her certain questions early on. On early stages of your relationship, avoid questions about her ex-husband, as divorced Chinese women in China often have scars they carry with them. The same applies to dating Chinese women in America.
But make sure you ask if she’s interested in a long relationship. Whether or not your intention is to eventually put a ring on her finger, ask her if she’s interested in a serious relationship with you. Many divorced Chinese ladies still believe in love and commitment, but there’re also plenty of those who no longer think two people can be in a committed relationship.
Deal with her emotional ups and downs. Divorced Chinese women usually have lots of emotional baggage to carry with them, so you should be prepared to deal with her emotional ups and downs, as she might cry for no reason every now and then – and you must be there to comfort her.
Divorced Chinese women can see right through you. You probably want to know this before you go to China to make a physical contact with the Chinese lady you’ve chatting online (especially considering the average cost of trip to China).
Divorced hotchinesegirls will see right through you if you aren’t committed to having a deep emotional connection with her. That’s because Chinese divorcees know how men are like when they’re madly in love and when they’re interested only in occasional sex. A divorced Chinese lady is not one of those typical China club girls you can fool.