Online dating has changed the landscape of dating and turned dating rules upside down once and for all. So if you’re trying to find a Chinese beauty but aren’t familiar with the dating rules applicable to online dating, you may have a hard time trying to maintain an online conversation for longer than an hour, let alone get some Chinese woman to agree to go on a date with you.
For many, the only thing that stands in their way to finding their future sexy Chinese wife on an online dating site is playing by those archaic dating rules. The landscape of dating has changed dramatically over the past few decades, which makes the following relationship rules too old to apply in the modern era.
Rule: Don’t respond to texts or phone calls immediately to stir up interest
Long gone are the days when playing hard to get would get you more attention from beautiful young Chinese girls. Don’t forget that we live at a time when each and every one of us has limitless options when it comes to finding a partner regardless of whether you’re looking for a one-night stand, long-term relationship, or causal dating.
Playing hard to get by waiting to respond to messages and phone calls for hours or even days doesn’t work anymore, and it can be said about both Chinese women looking for American men and men themselves. After all, if you don’t hear back from this girl you chatted with the night before but are eager to chat with someone – anyone – you might move onto another woman after choosing her from a list full of sexy Chinese women pics available for chatting.
Rule: Only men always make the first move
Really? What is it, 1919 or 1819? Although some Chinese Christian women may be unwilling to make the first move and would rather wait for a man to initiative a conversation, the “men ask out the women” rule is no longer followed by most beautiful mature Chinese women.
So if you signed up on an online dating site and think that you will have to spend there weeks trying to get at least one woman to go on a date with you, it’s probably because you’ve never tried online dating before. In many cases, a man can sign up on an online dating site with hundreds of thousands of active users – such as AsiaMe – and then sit back and wait for women to send him dozens of messages each day. Yep, that’s the beauty of online dating!
Rule: If a woman says ‘no’, she means ‘yes’
It’s no wonder why there are so many cases of sexual assaults if this archaic dating rule still exists. It makes no sense. A “no” always means “no,” so no need to play mind games or perform some sophisticated mental gymnastics trying to convince yourself that a woman means “yes” when saying “no.”
Rule: Only show the best side of yourself
Not being authentic will not get you far. If you upload a profile picture of yourself from 10 years ago, then see some Chinese women photo that you like, start a conversation, go on a date, and she sees that you pretended to be younger on an online dating site, it will be a major deal breaker for both you and her.
The same can be said about all those who think that they shouldn’t reveal the things about themselves that other people might not like. Well, how do you expect this to turn into a long-term relationship if you (a) cannot be honest with this person from the beginning, and (b) fear that this person might never accept you the way you are?