There are plenty of reasons why Chinese women love dating older men. If you are an older man and are about dating Chinese women, take a look at five reasons why Chinese women are attracted to older men.
Career is now her choice
In recent years, Chinese women have been more focused on their careers and education and waiting for marriage and kids later. This is a big change in traditional Chinese trends. Mostly women living in the US and Europe are opting for this style of life. This has left many beautiful Chinese women unmarried. It is not a traditional Chinese custom for a woman not to focus on family. It is not usual for a woman to not be married by the age of twenty-seven. Chinese women love successful and wealthy men. An older man is a perfect recipe. Many older men understand the desire of Chinese women to increase their education and to excel in their careers. Many Chinese women believe that older men are more accepting when it comes to them being over the age of thirty and not married.
Inspiration for this tradition is found in her home
Chinese women are generally attracted to older men because they look at their parents’ relationships. They are use to the dynamic of an older man with a younger woman because their fathers are typically older than their mothers. Most beautiful Chinese ladies have no problem dating older men. A lot of beautiful Chinese women are still set up by their parents, and they still attend a lot of matchmaking parties, especially the one in the New Year. Many Chinese parents value family over a woman going to school and continuing her education and focusing on a career before family. These are the things that an older man can provide them with. There will be no worries for her.
Security and protection
Beautiful Chinese ladies feel more comfortable and secure with older men because they give them the same sense of comfort as a father. Chinese women feel a sense of security from a more mature man that can help guide them in their decisions. Depending on if you are dating a traditional Chinese woman or a non-traditional Chinese woman, beautiful Chinese woman will have different expectations. Traditional Chinese women like to wait before marriage to indulge in sexual activities or at least have sex with a man that they feel will be their husband. Protection and security are major concerns for Chinese brides. An older man can give this ultimate feeling of protection.
More older Chinese ladies have a problem finding a man to marry because they took the time to focus on their education and careers. They may be age thirty and not married. This has left them as basically ‘leftover’ w
omen in Chinese society. For this reason, many older Chinese women have decided to seek foreigners for potential husbands. Because of the lack of potential suitors in their culture and because of the past traditions of women getting married before the age of thirty, Chinese women have found that older men who are foreign are more accepting of their choices to continue their education and focus on their career before family and children. This new focus and direction is not traditionally Chinese. However, with the boost in the economy, Chinese men have failed to fulfill the expectations of their women. Now, Chinese women seek a good career oriented life and respect what an older man can offer.
Insecurities of Chinese men because she is a successful diva
There are many more older single Chinese ladies available now than in the past. Many older Chinese women who may be divorced or may have decided to focus on their careers are now single and ready to find a husband. These Chinese women may seek older men because they can relate. In recent years, many older Chinese women have decided to date foreign men because a lot of Chinese men are uncomfortable with their careers. If a Chinese woman tells a Chinese man that she has a PhD on the first date, he will be intimidated. Most foreign older men are not frightened by a woman who has a successful career.
There are plenty of reasons why beautiful older Chinese women love and are attracted to older men.