July 6, 2022


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Creepy Things to Avoid with Chinese Wife

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Chinese wife is very popular in online matchmaking industry nowadays. However there are some creepy things to avoid when dating them. Read on!

Interactions between men and women have a more or less weird dynamic and, more often than not, a man can come off weird to a woman, sometimes without realizing it. Other times, it could be something he’s done deliberately, not knowing that he’s given out the wrong message, making the woman feel uncomfortable. If you ask any woman out there, they’ll always have at least one story to share about a time a guy was creeping her out. In fact, a Chinese wife may recall numerous instances like this.

It’s not unlikely that you’ve crept out or made a woman uncomfortable before. It’s not a crime though, at least for the most part, but you should not start acting in weird or creepy ways. If you want to avoid scaring off any potential Chinese brides, then we’re here to save you from being labeled as a creep or, worse yet, a potential serial killer. Here is a list of things that men do that make women uncomfortable, drawn from real-life experiences of different women.

7 Creepy Things to Avoid with Chinese Wife

  • Stalking

Whether it be online or in real life, stalking is more than enough to set off alarm bells in a woman’s head. Especially with how accessible information is now on the internet, anyone with a connection can find out anything and everything about someone without much effort.

Although stalking is incredibly common, it doesn’t make it right. It can make you seem possessive or obsessive, which is a huge red flag. So, if you want a clear shot at marrying the Chinese wife of your dreams, then don’t be a stalker. There are a lot of ways you can get to know her better without making her uncomfortable.

  • Being overly romantic too soon

You might be inspired by the extravagant romance displayed in a Chinese dating show but clinical psychologist, Dr. Carla Marie Manly, said it best, “Women often find it creepy when a man gets way too intense too quickly.” It might come as a surprise but it’s entirely possible to creep out a woman during a date with her. It’s not always glaring red flags that make women uncomfortable; sometimes it’s as simple as a man coming on strong and way too intense far too soon in a relationship.

It can be hard to navigate the line between romantic gestures and creepy ones. Love letters and flowers are romantic but buying her expensive jewelry when you’ve only been on one date can be too much for most women. The best way to go about this is by observing her reactions whenever you make a romantic gesture. Try to figure out what she likes and doesn’t like. Romantic gestures should be authentic and express genuine interest in the other person.

Sometimes, culture can play a part in it too. For example, Chinese women tend to take relationships a lot slower than other women. You would not see a Chinese woman dating a man who wants to rush a relationship.

  • Not taking ‘no’ for an answer

Sometimes a guy who doesn’t take ‘no’ for an answer might think his persistence and relentlessness are seen as romantic but, more often than not, the woman fending off his advances may already be genuinely crept out or even terrified. A guy who acts like this fails to take into account what the woman might be feeling and ignores the subtle and sometimes even obvious signs of rejection. If a woman wants to talk to you, she will. There’s no reason to cross her personal boundaries.

  • Inconsistency and flat-out lies

It’s normal to want to impress your potential Chinese girlfriend but sometimes nervousness and desperation can lead to men lying. Most of the time they get caught being inconsistent with their stories, which can lead to women thinking that her is being a dishonest creep. It definitely seems a lot easier to impress women in movies.

  • Being overly forward

Tradition dictates that a man has to be forward in order to win a woman’s heart. Nowadays, this doesn’t hold as much water any more. A lot more women these days are on guard against guys who flirt with them out of the blue, which can be seen as too suspicious or creepy. When interacting with women you like, it’s much more important to prioritize her comfort over your needs. In Chinese culture, marriage and relationships have more serious implications, which means any rushed and out-of-the-blue courting may not be a good idea.

  • Giving too many fake or superficial compliments

Receiving compliments is always nice but some guys overdo it, thinking the more the better. They start showering a cute Chinese girl with quick and shallow compliments that may come off as insincere and desperate. If you want to compliment a woman, do it from a place of authenticity and not because you feel like you have to.

  • Abusing your authority

Creepiness can be hard to define accurately, but a woman knows exactly when they feel it. Most of the time, it can be a subtle or serious threatening presence that hides behind something completely normal. This occurs especially with men who use their positions of power to leverage situations in order to win a woman’s heart, like a police officer hanging around a woman and seemingly doing his job when really he’s trying to find a way to ask her out. It’s unlikely to find Chinese women dating men who act like this.

The Bottom Line

There are a lot of seemingly normal things that a lot of men are unaware may come off as creepy to women. With that said, it doesn’t mean you should stop trying to date someone altogether just to stop being called creepy. If you want a Chinese wife, you just have to be more careful and self-aware. Love and dating are beautiful things to experience so don’t be afraid to try and grab them. Go on and sign up to a Chinese dating site. You never know, the love of your life could be just around the corner!