Essential Questions to Ask Yourself Before Dating a Divorced Chinese Lady

Essential Questions to Ask Yourself Before Dating a Divorced Chinese Lady

A good romantic relationship is always a nice thing to have. It can start with a simple date with your Chinese lady and end up happily ever after. However, that kind of relationship does not just fall on someone’s lap. It takes hard work. Romantic relationship is as delicate as it is beautiful, and so, in special circumstances, like dating a divorced woman, it’s important to know the right questions to ask yourself before diving in the relationship to ensure that happy ending.

  1. Is the divorce legal?

Love is for all, but no one is above the law. As much as you want to start dating this sweet Chinese girl right away, it’s important to find out yourself first and foremost if the divorce is indeed legal. This is for your protection, as it is hers, and your relationship’s. While it’s not the end of the world that she still needs to be legally divorced, it’s always recommendable to start a relationship on a clean slate.sweet Chinese girl

  1. What was the cause of the divorce?

Every marriage is personal and different, and so it’s unfair to judge this traditional Chinese bride by how her last marriage went. However, it is still imperative that you have some sort of idea about what caused her divorce. You have to know this if to protect your relationship from suffering the same fate her last marriage did. If you know what caused her divorce, you are then better equipped to handle your current relationship with her by knowing what to do and what not to do.

  1. How long has it been since the divorce?

Time heals pain, and divorce is one of the most painful things the girls from China, or anyone for that matter, can experience. Whether it be a divorce because of an abusive relationship or just a mutual decision, it’s still a bit painful to realize that the relationship you thought would work did not. So, ask yourself, “How long has it been since the divorce?”, because despite being very prepared to date her, you have to consider the fact that she hasn’t completely healed yet, and that she needs more time. This is not to start dating women; it’s so that you can give her the time she needs that will eventually be beneficial to your relationship in the long run.

  1. Has she recovered from the divorce? If yes, how?

The answer to the first question is to help you decide on how to handle the situation. If the answer to the first question is no, then at least you’ll have the chance to help her actually move on from it. If yes, it’s good to know how she did. This will give you a new perspective of the now single Chinese girl you want to date.

  1. Are you ready to settle for one woman?

the girls from ChinaThe last thing a divorced woman needs is a guy who is not ready to settle to one woman. Yes, people are entitled to explore, but not at the expense of other people. This is why you need to ask yourself first if you’re really ready to stop looking at other pretty Chinese ladies or different Chinese women pics because looking at only one is already more than enough.

  1. Are you ready for a serious relationship?

This question is so important that you need to be asking yourself before you date anyone exclusively. If you know the answer to this, you can save yourself and others from ruined relationships, romantic or not.

  1. Is she ready for a serious relationship?

It’s not just whether or not you are ready for a serious relationship. You should be asking yourself if she is also ready for a serious relationship, too. There’s nothing wrong if she isn’t. Divorced women are entitled to explore and have fun, too. However, you should be aware of whether she’s okay about being exclusive or not before you get in too deep to save both of yourselves from heartache and/or bitter relationship.

  1. Is she comfortable talking about her divorce?

First of all, divorce is hard to talk about even for Chinese women, so there’s nothing to feel bad about if the woman you’re dating isn’t ecstatic about telling you the details of her failed marriage. However, she should at least be comfortable enough to talk to you about it, especially when you ask. If she’s completely avoiding the topic, she probably needs you to wait for a bit before you start dating.

  1. Does she want to get married again?

You have to find out if the woman you’re dating wants to get married again. There is a possibility that she does not want to get married anymore, and if that’s the case, you need to determine if you’re okay with being together even without a ring.

  1. How does she feel about her ex-husband?

The answer here is crucial to your relationship. If she’s exceedingly bitter about her ex-husband to the point that she blows up every time he’s mentioned, she’s probably still attached to him and needs more time to be emotionally independent. She doesn’t need to be happy about him for you to know that she’s moved on, but she felt at least indifferent about him is a good sign.

CONCLUSION

Do remember that every relationship requires hard work and dedication. There will always be struggles, and dating a divorced woman is not any different, which means that these questions that you need to ask yourself are not to push you away, but to help you make it work.asian girls

Victoria

Victoria Young is a Chinese woman who blogs about dating chinese woman and how to deal with intercultural differences in a Chinese-Western relationship.

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