If you’ve signed up on a dating website to meet a hot Russian girl but don’t really know how to approach hot women, here are a few tips for you. You can even consider it your personal ‘How to get a Russian bride’ guide.
Believe us when we say this: Russian ladies get hundreds (some even thousands) of messages on international dating websites daily. And it has to do not only with their natural beauty (Russian women are considered to be one of the most beautiful women in the world), but also the known fact that Russian women make perfect wives.
And that’s why so many foreigners visit Russia to find Russian brides. But why so many of them mess it up when talking to Russian women? Why can’t they just succeed at picking up hot Russian ladies?
And whatever is the reason you want to chat with a hot Russian girl, it’s important to know the pitfalls and rules of chatting with Russian beauties. Russian girls have a different mindset compared to American and pretty much all Western girls.
Russian women want to feel safe and interesting around their man. So every time she tells you a story from her past or a joke, really, REALLY listen to her, and then ask questions after she’s finished. Russian girls appreciate good listeners, and it’s a rarity to find a good listener nowadays. So be one.
Be original. Avoid such topics as work, studies and weather, as those topics are (1) boring, and (2) are a deadend of any conversation. Instead, focus on her inner world and find out about her interests, fears, hopes, dreams, etc. Make your potential future Russian wife feel that you’re genuinely curious about her life and personality.
Pay attention to details. When chatting with gorgeous Russian women online, always pay attention to details. And this goes for both: when you’re listening to her, and when you’re telling her your own stories. Russian women care about details, so when you tell any story, make sure you give the exact description of your emotions during the moments from the story.
Russian women care about emotions and they want to know if they can relate to your emotions, if they’re capable of understanding you through emotions. Russian girls think foreign men are very different from Russian men, which is why they could often look at you like you’re some kind of an alien.
If you’ve started an online chat with some Russian beauty, focus on topics that revolve around both: you and her. Don’t focus on general topics too much, as you need to peak her interest by revealing your inner world, not by re-telling her some breaking news or discussing some TV show with her.
Instead, focus on topics that would allow you to understand who she is and what she wants from life. Ask her to share her three dreams with you, ask her about her plans for the future, ask her if she has a day from her life that she could call her happiest day ever.
And while there is a wide-spread misconception that all Russian women looking for men on online dating websites care about is money, in reality that’s not true. Well, of course, there are Russian women who view money as the most important thing in a man, but in most cases Russian women are looking for foreign men because they are not satisfied with their lives.
And it’s not only about the poor quality of life in Russia, it’s also because Russia lacks masculine men capable of making women feel safe around them. So if you want to truly peak a Russian girl’s interest, you need to prove that you will be a reliable, honest, confident and protective husband.
Oh, and don’t be surprised if she’s using lots of “)))” instead of emojis, as this is Russian people’s way of expressing their emotions in online chats. The more parenthesis “)” she puts in her message, the wider the smile on her face is!