You have decided to select a date from Philippines after browsing through that country’s best dating sites. When you start dating Asian women, be respectful and not judgmental. Philippine girls will be less inclined to surrender their identities when they decide to enter into long term relationship and marriage after they marry Americans like you.
Let your dating relationship be a healthy one that develops into a meaningful one for you and your partner, bringing you both eventually to a point where you decide to settle down in life and marry. Do not allow other people in your life to troll you or your date into thinking that you are not doing a great thing by entering into an inter-racial marriage. Love knows no bounds nor does it know any boundaries!
Philippine women will not be dating an American just because they need a visa to enter USA or an American passport as their major aim in life. They can settle down anywhere in the world. In fact, many Philippine women are happy working independently in the United Arab Emirates today. You may come across only one in a thousand who has such ulterior motives. So, don’t go around being judgmental and harbour a wrong opinion about Philipino girls.
After dating you and entering into a marriage with you, Philippine singles are not going to betray their race nor will they start hating themselves or their heritage. You cannot slot sexy Philipino girls into being the cultural stereotypes with false equivalencies. Their relationship with you will be about fun and love and not about surrendering their voice or identity in this battle for American-Asian equality or race prejudice.
There may be some people around you who would try and convince you that most women from Philippines would date and marry you as opportunists who try to rise in life in USA. Remember that Philippine women seeking American men are not about this. They are not opportunists. They are human being from other parts of the world with a heart, just like you. Let your dating relationship blossom with an understanding that nobody in this world owes partnership or marriage to any one, until the heart wants it.
As an American visiting the best Asian dating sites in search of sexy Philipino girls, do not ever be a victim of thoughts of narrow minded people who suggest that American only have a fetish for Asian women because they want to own them as exotic trophies. It is a fallacy that Asian women become successful because of their American partners. Mature Asian ladies do not think along such lines. They do not think that if you marry them, you would be expected to support them while they serve you at home and that you would also have to support their entire family.
When you meet your date from the Philippines and her family members, you will never get this feeling that they were waiting for this opportunity of hooking an American man to support them. It is your choice but they do not have any such expectations. So, do not put your dating partner into a stereotype category and have negative thoughts about her. She may not be rich but she would have led a comfortable life, till now and she would have been brought up to be totally independent. She would be coming from a culture which tells her that she has to work when she wants to earn and that she should not depend on any person or a dating partner to give anything to her as a financial support. She would be leaning on you, no doubt,for physical and emotional support once she starts taking interest in you, as a person of romantic interest.