Vietnamese girls have a grace of beauty that goes with them. Little wonder men are in an unending marathon to date them. Vietnam girls dating are very rewarding but the rules are a little similar to that of general Asian dating. However, there are some peculiarities with Vietnam girls that you wouldn’t see among other Asian girls and that are why men seeking to date Vietnam girls needs to understand this uniqueness or else they fumble.
It is unlikely that a hot Vietnamese girl would be bold enough to take the first step, no matter how much she admires or lusts after you. The trend is always the case; they will allow you do the chasing while they run for a short distance. The reverse can only happen in the West and is strongly against Vietnamese culture. This is where some men get it wrong. They may interpret her initial ‘running’ as not having interest but that is not true. It gives them the joy that you are chasing after them and the little hard to get game is just a test of how serious you are.
When dating a Vietnamese woman, never assume that you know all their cultures. What you must have read in books may not be totally correct. Have it at the back of your mind too that there are minor diversities in cultures as you move from one region to another. If you are really bent on winning her heart, then there is no harm in making out time to learn her culture believing otherwise may just set you on the path of stereotype.
Communication is the key to every successful relationship. Communication gaps can give room to so many unhealthy assumptions. Vietnamese women dating can be hard or easy depending on the level of your communication. It is advised that you ask her to explain anything you don’t understand rather than base your claims on assumptions. Learn also to ask ‘why’ when she does something you don’t understand. It is only by asking the correct questions that you would get the correct response.
If you are the type that demands sex on the first date then dating Vietnamese girls may be your greatest challenge ever because it will never happen. Remember you were told earlier that Vietnamese share a lot of norms with the entire Asia and sex is one of them. It is against the tradition of Asian for women to be promiscuous. For a Vietnamese girl to agree to share your sheet with you then she must have built trust over time with you or you two are on the verge of getting married.
This tradition doesn’t make them less sexually active or less raunchy when it comes to sex. If they agree to go down with you, you may never want to stop for any reason and she can sustain the tempo for hours. If you are among those that have been living in doubt of their sexual capabilities because of the enormous amount of suppression their tradition has placed on them, you can think again.
The main secret on how to date Vietnamese women is for you to prove to her that you can protect and provide for her. Vietnamese culture has made it clear that the man should be the provider for the family. If you take her out and expect her to pay the bills, it may never happen so don’t be discouraged when it happens; she is probably acting under the custom of the land. Take it as your sole responsibility to take care of her.